思想的部分转变

从问题片面的思考转变为更为深度,更注重细节的思考;从关注周围甚至自身的小圈子转变为关注更广泛的焦点;从无意识转变为拥有独立思考,分析,判断的能力;从无知到建立起自己的价值观;从盲目相信到勇敢怀疑一切;从主观到客观。为一个人思想部分方面的转变。

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  第二,做一名有道德的黑客。

  第一,参加培训,成为老师。

The Chaos

Dearest creature in creation,

Study English pronunciation.

I will teach you in my verse
Sounds like corpse, corps, horse, and worse.
It will keep you, Suzy, busy,
Make your head with heat grow dizzy.
Tear in eye, your dress will tear.
So shall I! Oh hear my prayer.
Just compare heart, beard, and heard,
Dies and diet, lord and word,
Sword and sward, retain and Britain.
(Mind the latter, how it’s written.)
Now I surely will not plague you
With such words as plaque and ague.
But be careful how you speak:
Say break and steak, but bleak and streak;
Cloven, oven, how and low,
Script, receipt, show, poem, and toe.
Hear me say, devoid of trickery,
Daughter, laughter, and Terpsichore,
Typhoid, measles, topsails, aisles,
Exiles, similes, and reviles;
Scholar, vicar, and cigar,
Solar, mica, war and far;
One, anemone, Balmoral,
Kitchen, lichen, laundry, laurel;
Gertrude, German, wind and mind,
Scene, Melpomene, mankind.
Billet does not rhyme with ballet,
Bouquet, wallet, mallet, chalet.
Blood and flood are not like food,
Nor is mould like should and would.
Viscous, viscount, load and broad,
Toward, to forward, to reward.
And your pronunciation’s OK
When you correctly say croquet,
Rounded, wounded, grieve and sieve,
Friend and fiend, alive and live.
Ivy, privy, famous; clamour
And enamour rhyme with hammer.
River, rival, tomb, bomb, comb,
Doll and roll and some and home.
Stranger does not rhyme with anger,
Neither does devour with clangour.
Souls but foul, haunt but aunt,
Font, front, wont, want, grand, and grant,
Shoes, goes, does. Now first say finger,
And then singer, ginger, linger,
Real, zeal, mauve, gauze, gouge and gauge,
Marriage, foliage, mirage, and age.
Query does not rhyme with very,
Nor does fury sound like bury.
Dost, lost, post and doth, cloth, loth.
Job, nob, bosom, transom, oath.
Though the differences seem little,
We say actual but victual.
Refer does not rhyme with deafer.
Foeffer does, and zephyr, heifer.
Mint, pint, senate and sedate;
Dull, bull, and George ate late.
Scenic, Arabic, Pacific,
Science, conscience, scientific.
Liberty, library, heave and heaven,
Rachel, ache, moustache, eleven.
We say hallowed, but allowed,
People, leopard, towed, but vowed.
Mark the differences, moreover,
Between mover, cover, clover;
Leeches, breeches, wise, precise,
Chalice, but police and lice;
Camel, constable, unstable,
Principle, disciple, label.
Petal, panel, and canal,
Wait, surprise, plait, promise, pal.
Worm and storm, chaise, chaos, chair,
Senator, spectator, mayor.
Tour, but our and succour, four.
Gas, alas, and Arkansas.
Sea, idea, Korea, area,
Psalm, Maria, but malaria.
Youth, south, southern, cleanse and clean.
Doctrine, turpentine, marine.
Compare alien with Italian,
Dandelion and battalion.
Sally with ally, yea, ye,
Eye, I, ay, aye, whey, and key.
Say aver, but ever, fever,
Neither, leisure, skein, deceiver.
Heron, granary, canary.
Crevice and device and aerie.
Face, but preface, not efface.
Phlegm, phlegmatic, ass, glass, bass.
Large, but target, gin, give, verging,
Ought, out, joust and scour, scourging.
Ear, but earn and wear and tear
Do not rhyme with here but ere.
Seven is right, but so is even,
Hyphen, roughen, nephew Stephen,
Monkey, donkey, Turk and jerk,
Ask, grasp, wasp, and cork and work.
Pronunciation (think of Psyche!)
Is a paling stout and spikey?
Won’t it make you lose your wits,
Writing groats and saying grits?
It’s a dark abyss or tunnel:
Strewn with stones, stowed, solace, gunwale,
Islington and Isle of Wight,
Housewife, verdict and indict.
Finally, which rhymes with enough,
Though, through, plough, or dough, or cough?
Hiccough has the sound of cup.
My advice is to give up!!!

我可能不会爱你 I

       喜欢一个人的时候,最可悲的情况之一就是,当她伤心难过时,你也许是第一时间站出来安慰她的那个人,说着鼓励的话,安慰的话,情谊潜藏的话。在那一刻她的回应也许是些许的开心,高兴,没有那么的伤心难过了,但是接下来你也许你会发现,也许你不会发现,也许是某一个神情,也许是某一句话,你才知道其实她还是在伤心,还是在难过,其实到最后你没有改变什么,甚至你的安慰就好像沙滩上的脚印一样,被伤感的潮水轻而易举的冲刷掉,没留下来什么痕迹。其实你早都发现原因了,只是你不愿意去承认,但事实还是摆在这里,伤她的那个人不是你,也许你的千言万语都比不上那个人的一句“对不起”。因为她的心不在你这,在另一个人那里。所以安慰有时就好像什么都没做过一样,你做的只是说完那些话后,发现自己也许比她更难过了。因为你难过自己的真心安慰没起到很大的作用,只是皮皮毛毛,因为她喜欢的不是你,因为你….只是她的一个朋友。于是你自己偷偷难过,她在你面前难过,你鼓励安慰她之后依旧难过,她听过你的安慰之后也一样继续难过,但是她的难过也许很快就会解开,但你的呢?让时间来回答吧。

       你希望离她更近一点,你努力做到最近了,却靠近不了她的心。

《见与不见》

你见,或者不见我,

我就在那里,

不悲不喜;

你念,或者不念我,

情就在那里,

不来不去;

你爱,或者不爱我,

爱就在那里,

不增不减;

你跟,或者不跟我,

我的手就在你手里,

不舍不弃;

来我的怀里,

或者,

让我住进你的心里。

默然,相爱;

寂静,欢喜。